The ads told her it was. The ads said that you should buy make-up, and colour your hair, and drink Coke so that you will be the sort of attractive that men can’t resist
– Alyssa Brugman, Solo (Allen & Unwin, 2007)
As well as Alyssa Brugman’s amazing (if harrowing) work [1], I’ve been reading The Empire of Mind: Digital Piracy and the Anti-Capitalist Movement by Michael Strangelove (University of Toronto Press, 2005). In the first chapter our saturation in advertising is discussed.
I don’t think much of diamonds or diamond engagement rings. My mother never had an engagement ring and has lived her married life quite happily without it. I’ve always thought they’re a waste of money. If someone proposed to me with one I’d probably say no because he obviously wouldn’t know me well enough to know my views on such wasteful consumption.
What I didn’t know about diamond rings was that the phrase
A diamond is forever
is the result of the highly successful 1947 campaign of the N.W. Ayers advertising agency. [2] Ayers said they were
dealing with a problem in mass psychology. We seek to…strengthen the tradition of the diamond engagement ring – to make it a psychological necessity capable of competing successfully at the retail level with utility goods and services. (p.24)
Translation: a diamond ring has no utility; we’ll make it seem useful and thus necessary. Strangelove sums up,
Sixty years later, global consumer attitudes towards diamond rings remain highly engineered by the market’s propaganda system…As is often the case, the marketplace’s value system compels the consumer to act, while at the same time defining the acceptable parameters of action. (p.25)
If I ever wondered where the phrase came from (which I’m sure I never did), James Bond may have come to mind. But then James Bond is just another brand, manufactured to sell product. When I was a teenager I went to the cinema to see one of the Bronson Bond movies and I was disgusted by the product placement, wondering (aloud) every time I saw it, how much each company had paid. I’m now wondering (aloud) how I ended up at a cinema watching such drivel, but I was young.
Few individuals are willing to admit that advertising plays a substantial role in their choices or their sense of identity. In the midst of history’s most expensive and omnipresent propaganda system there remains widespread disbelief in advertising’s efficacy. (p.29)
I hate advertising, but I still get sucked in. I don’t eat fast food, but when a fast food ad comes on TV, my mouth waters. A couple of weeks ago I saw an ad for frozen oven chips on TV. I buy these, even though I wish I wasn’t so lazy, and when I saw the ad I thought, “I could eat some of them” and I put some in the oven.
Back to diamonds, I would much prefer someone give me the original tree than a diamond ring – a tree that’s been there forever and will continue (perhaps) hundreds of years after we’re no more.
And on the topic of trees, my tuart/marri/whatever-it-is is slowing shooting upwards. This spring it has lots of reddish new shoots and it’s more than one metre. The red of the new growth makes me think it isn’t a tuart (which has green new growth) and it certainly isn’t a jarrah which has waxy maroon-ish new growth. These were the two species that I know were in my previous garden. There might also have been marri trees (Corymbia calophylla) and that’s what I now think my tree is.
=^.^=
Offline sources
- Brugman, Alyssa (2007) Solo. Sydney: Allen & Unwin.
- Strangelove, Michael (2005) The Empire of Mind: Digital Piracy and the Anti-Capitalist Movement. Toronto: University of Toronto Press.
Some fiction
When corporations and their advertising are in control (not really all that different to the world we live in)
- Feed by M.T. Anderson (Candlewick Press, 2002)
- So Yesterday by Scott Westerfeld (Razorbill, 2004)
- Ads R Us by Claire Carmichael (Random House, 2006)
Privacy is an outdated concept, Barrett.










I completely agree about diamonds and engagement rings. I don’t think diamonds look that amazing, for a start, and then when I learned about the suffering people go through to mine them that decided me.
I didn’t have/want an engagement ring, and was quite happy without one, although a lot of people around me were quietly horrified that i didn’t have one. (and like you, if my husband-to-be had suggested getting one I would have realised he didn’t really know me at all…)
Thank you for reading me. And yes, may you be among the first of many to say no to diamonds…
Dr. Strangelove
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